MUCH THE SAME AS ME

At times, it feels like the walls are collapsing— Like you have no place to go, Nothing you can do. You’re drained from attempting to hold all the disintegrating bits of your coexistence. What’s more, you need to surrender—toss the… Read moreMUCH THE SAME AS ME

TO THE LOVE THAT WAS NEVER FOREVER — THANK YOU !

I didn’t expect to meet you. I didn’t mean to fall in love with you. It wasn’t part of my life plan. Yet, there you were, out of nowhere—changing everything, cracking open my heart, showing me how to love. You… Read moreTO THE LOVE THAT WAS NEVER FOREVER — THANK YOU !

LESSONS FROM MY YOGA MAT: COME WHAT MAY

I’ve stopped looking for “The One”—the one person I’m meant to spend the rest of my life with. That’s what we’re supposed to be looking for right? When we’re a bit young, and single again, and have spent the years… Read moreLESSONS FROM MY YOGA MAT: COME WHAT MAY

WHEN YOUR SOUL IS JUST GETTING TIRED

It has been awhile since I last wrote a blog.  And this absence is just a temporary deep rest for me since I have gone through a recent period of extreme emotional/mental stress.   As much as I try to… Read moreWHEN YOUR SOUL IS JUST GETTING TIRED

TO THE LOVE THAT WAS NEVER FOREVER — THANK YOU !

  i didn’t expect to meet you. I didn’t mean to fall in love with you.  It wasn’t part of my life plan.  Yet, there you were, out of nowhere — changing everything, cracking open my heart, showing me how… Read moreTO THE LOVE THAT WAS NEVER FOREVER — THANK YOU !

THE LITTLE WARRIOR IN ME

    Sometimes, it feels like the walls are caving in—   Like you have nowhere to go, Nothing you can do.   You’re tired from trying to hold all the crumbling pieces of your life together. And you want… Read moreTHE LITTLE WARRIOR IN ME

AND THE WOUND WAS OPEN

It has been one (1) month and twelve (12) days since I had my Modified Radical Mastectomy and yesterday 8th March 2018 when all the remaining staples were removed.   The intense anxiety it brought me was so overwhelming that I… Read moreAND THE WOUND WAS OPEN

THE OPERATION

After the long wait for my cardiologist,  I have finally managed to get hold of him by mid January 2018 and was given a clearance prior to my operation. And I was cleared. I have been anticipating to be operated… Read moreTHE OPERATION

RANDOM THOUGHTS : ON LOVING OTHERS WITHOUT EXPECTING THEM TO FILL A VOID

“You must love in such a way that the other person feels free.”  Conventional notions of what it means to love are populated with expectations for reciprocity that often get us into trouble. I know this personally, because whenever I… Read moreRANDOM THOUGHTS : ON LOVING OTHERS WITHOUT EXPECTING THEM TO FILL A VOID